Chioma Chinnaya Ogbonna

Chioma, i rem the first time i met u thru Didi, u were so welcoming and so caring, due to that reason your apartment became my second home, were i spent most of my weekends with Didi, since u were always at nursing skol or work most of the time. i was always happy wen u came back because we always had great conversations, u always adviced me on wat to do concerning my relationships and skol, u were like an older sis to me.  How i wish i kept in contact with u all this years, i have learnt a lesson from your death Chioma, i will always reach out to my friends no matter where they are.  Your death came as a shock to me, i will never forget your charming smile and humbling spirt.  I pray that God will console your family and close friends must of all i pray that God will heal their broken heart and give them the strength to move on in life. i love u my dear friend Rest with the Lord in peace

Together we got admission to Medical school to be Doctors at the same time, we worked as Nurses, planned to live together when we start our medical school Journey in Sept, due to some circumstances beyond my control,You deferred ur admission when l deferred mine just because you don't want to go alone without me, you fought for me cos u made my friends ur friends and my enemy your enemy, oh l remember how u used to giggle at anything l say even at my body language, we finish each other's sentences, my likes were ur likes, my closet ur closet, my house ur house, my car ur car, we hung out a lot. we were also partners in crime...got each other's back. We believed in each other. We told each other the truth even when it hurts...we never quarrelled for one day. I fought on ur behalf cos u deserved it. Oh gosh u were so peaceful. I miss how u will hug me and tell me CHI MOMMIE u know u r one tough cookie and a strong lady to go thru all u hv been thru and still shine...l miss all ur encouraging words. I miss how u will tell me how l gave u hope by believing in u and never turned my back on u. The last discussion we had while u were in my house on sunday before mon that u passed, u told me that l am ur sister and u will never prefer any other bff than me.
 I will write a book if l keep going. My friends and kids all do miss u. I don't hv the zeal to go to med sch without u unless God gives me the strength and if l do, oh if l do l MUST open a foundation on ur behalf and also open a clinic for victims of accidents all cos of u by God's grace......pls guide me and protect me.
 I love u and will never let u down or let ur memory fade away. I am so happy to know that l was able to say "l love u" to u many times n l was able to show u how much l care......R.I.P MY NWANYIOCHA BARBIE CHIOMA CHINNAYA OGBONNA.

Whenever I look at your pictures,I wish it's not true that your gone.....I still can't believed that it's true until I google your name, saw the same picture again with the same thing I had the previous day, and finally believed it when Dee Paty,your mom,my anuty and my mother's younger sister called me...It's so   disheartening..and tears roll down my eyes in years.

I can still remenber when we were small that I use to bully Uchenna and Ugonna, and your will beat a hell out of me..it is still very fresh in my memory.

I can still remenber when we were small,I visited you guys for a holiday, I opened the fridge and left it open....you called my name Uchenna Uchenna Uchenna Oloo Oloo Oloo and from that day everybody started calling you Uchenna Uchenna Uchenna Oloo Oloo Oloo...so funny

I can still remenber when my father dead,how you asked me if I will drink coke in the middle of a burial...hahaha..we were very young then.

I can still remenber the first and last time we spoke on the phone in many years,how lovely your voice sounds. I asked you if you were enjoying yourself in Abuja and you said yes and said you wish I was around to take round the city.
I finally asked you when are we going to see each other and you answered very soon and I never knew that very soon is the last time am going to hear your sweet voice not to talk of seeing you in this sinful world....

No no no .....am not done yet...i asked you if you know how to speak Pigin English and you said yes.....wetin dey hapun and you replied notin dey hapun,i jos dey like Dele Giwa.

It is very so pain not to see you again after so many years and to hear fo about death....

May God bless you soul and the Angels in heaven take you and keep you close to their heart..

Rest in Peace my Angel..
I love you...  

THE ATTACHED PICTURE IS THE LAST PICTURE MY BFF CHIOMA CHINNAYA OGBONNA TOOK OF ME AT HENRY'S BABY CHRISTENING THAT WE ATTENDED ON FRIDAY APRIL 8TH 2011 WHEN SHE SPENT HER LAST WKND WITH ME ONLY TO DIE ON MONDAY...OH I WILL NEVER FORGET THIS PIX COS IT WILL FOREVER BE A CONSTANT REMINDER OF MY LAST OUTING WITH U...WE HAD SO MUCH FUN AND SHE DANCED LIKE NEVER BEFORE...FULL OF LIFE....CHI HOW IN DA WORLD DO U THINK I WILL COPE WHEN DA FOUR CORNERS OF MY HOUSE AND CAR BREATHS UR MEMORY. I RECALL HOW U WERE GIGGLING LIKE A BABY WHILE I WAS DOING UR MAKE-UP FOR OUR OUTING ON FRI AND SAT NITE...LITTLE DID I KNOW THAT IT WILL BE MY LAST OUTING/TIME WITH U.
CHI NWANYIOCHA BARBIE MU, U SO MUCH LOVED ME THAT YOU CHOOSE TO SPEND UR LAST DAYS ON EARTH WITH ME AND MY FAMILY. I WISH I STOPPED YOU FROM LEAVING MY HOUSE ON SUNDAY MAYBE U WILL STILL BE HERE WITH ME. ALL I EVER WANTED IS TO PLAN  UR BDAYS, ENGAGEMENT, BRIDAL SHOWER,WEDDING, OUR GRADUATION FROM MEDICAL SCHOOL, UR BABY-SHOWER BUT DEFINITELY NOT UR WAKE-KEEPING AND BURIAL...CHI WHY YOU????. I CAN'T EAT, SLEEP OR FUNCTION.
YOU FOUGHT FOR ME ON THAT FRIDAY OUT OF LOVE COS U MADE MY FRIENDS UR FRIENDS, MY ENEMY UR ENEMY...GOSH THIS IS UNBEARABLE....R.I.P MY NWANYIOCHA.

PLS MY DEARIES,MY NAME IS CHYSEXSY ASA STEPHANIE (CHIOMA'S BFF). I HAVE TO WRITE IN CAPS BECAUSE CHIOMA'S DEATH IS SO UNBEARABLE AND UNBELIEVABLE. IGNORE MY CAPS AND ERRORS AS YOU READ COS I AM IN TEARS AS I WRITE THIS. IT IS SO HARD TO PLAN THE WAKE-KEEPING AND BURIAL OF CHIOMA KNOWING THAT SHE SPENT HER LAST WEEKEND WITH ME..LEFT MY HOUSE ON SUNDAY ONLY TO DIE ON MONDAY...GOSH SHE WAS FULL OF LIFE.

DEAR FRIENDS AND WELL-WISHERS OF Chioma Chinnaya Ogbonna. I HAD A MEETING THIS EVENING APRIL 13TH 2011 WITH FEW OF HER FRIENDS/FAMILY REGARDING HER WAKE/BURIAL SERVICE. I AM DA CHIEF PLANNER/CORDINATOR OF HER WAKE/BURIAL SERVICE. THE FAMILY NEED OUR HELP TO ENABLE THEM GIVE HER A BEFITTING WAKE/BURIAL NEXT FRIDAY/SAT. PLS LET ME KNOW IF U WANT TO BE PART OF THE COMMITTEE OF FRIENDS. FEEL FREE TO INBOX ME. I WILL UPDATE Y'ALL ABOUT THE VENUE/DATE/TIME. GOD BLESS Y'ALL AS U HELP SUPPORT HER FAMILY.

 

IT IS SO PAINFUL TO SAY R.I.P TO OUR BELOVED BEAUTIFUL ANGEL CHIOMA. SHE TOUCHED SO MANY LIVES WITH HER INFECTIOUS POSITIVE AND BEAUTIFUL PERSONALITY. HER BEAUTIFUL SOUL WAS VERY CONTAGIOUS. MANY FELT HER UNDENIALABLE HEART OF GOLD. SHE WAS A FRIEND IN-NEED TO  ALL WHO WERE PRIVILEGED TO RELATE TO HER.  YOU CAN FEEL HER HEART THRU HER SMILE. OH HOW I LOVE THE WAY SHE GIGGLES LIKE A BABY WHEN SHE LAUGHS. SHE WAS SO PEACEFUL, READY TO RUN AND HELP WHEN CALLED UPON. SHE WILL IGNORE HER HAPPINESS, GIVE UP HER LAST TO HELP ANYONE IN-NEED. CHI WHERE DO I START TO TELL THE WORLD ABOUT AN ANGEL LIKE YOU. YOU WERE TOO GOOD AND TOO PERFECT AS A FRIEND/SISTER. WHEN OTHERS WERE STRUGGLING TO TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES, ALL YOU DID WAS WORK HARD TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR FAMILY. YOU ARE INDEED IRREPLACEABLE. WHEN YOU WALK INTO A ROOM IT GLOWS WITH YOUR POSITIVE AURA AND BEAUTY. WHEN YOU DANCE, ONE CANNOT HELP BUT TO WATCH YOU WIND..OH HOW U LOVE SOUKOUS AND NAIJA MUSIC. NOW I BELIEVE THAT ANGELS ARE MADE TO BE IN HEAVEN AND THAT IS WHY GOD TOOK YOU COS U WERE TOO PERFECT TO BE IN THIS SINFUL WORLD.  I WISH YOU CAN SEE HOW PPL ARE SINGING UR PRAISES WHILE HURTING AND CRYING COS YOU LEFT US WAY TOO SOON. FOR SURE YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN IN A  HURRY. YOUR BEAUTY, SMILE, PEEKS, KISSES ON DA CHEEK, HUGS , KINDNESS, LOVE, BEAUTIFUL DANCE MOVES AND ABOVE ALL UR CONTAGIOUS PERSONALITY WILL BE MISSED. GOSH I AM SO ENAMORED WITH YOUR BEAUTIFUL SOUL. OH LORD....I WILL STOP HERE COS I AM ALL TEARS...WITH TEARY EYES I SAY R.I.P MY NWANYIOCHA BARBIE CHIOMA CHINNAYA OGBONNA.